| Now I know that it sounds weird but these 5 | | | | listen to your subconscious self is so that you can |
| questions can be the single difference between great | | | | first learn to identify whether you are feeding |
| social interactions with girls and terrible ones! | | | | yourself confidence or fear and doubt! |
| So have you ever heard the saying that we all have | | | | Fact: "Your Subconscious Mindset Dictates Your |
| an inner voice within us? Well guess what, its true | | | | Conscious Way of Living." |
| and that inner voice is always there and constantly | | | | The simple concept of mind of matter comes into |
| talking. | | | | play here as what you think is what you are. So if |
| And what is it? Well that inner voice is you... your | | | | your subconscious keeps feeding you negativity, |
| subconscious... the "silent" decision maker. | | | | doubt and fear, then your conscious actions will be |
| It influences and most times even decides on the | | | | along the same lines of negativity, doubt and fear. |
| course of action that you take. Sounds kind of scary | | | | Whereas a positive subconscious way of thinking will |
| but the truth is that in most daily situations we really | | | | result in you making conscious actions that are full of |
| have little to no conscious control of the decisions | | | | physical confidence and positivity. |
| we make. We simply seem to automatically react to | | | | 4. So Why Is My Inner Voice Full Of Confidence |
| certain events and make decisions daily decisions | | | | Negativity? |
| without much thought at all. | | | | Well this can be explained simply by quoting: "Birds of |
| Think about it... | | | | a Feather Flock Together". |
| We naturally train our minds to make most mental | | | | So look and around at the people you socialize with, |
| decisions quickly and without much thought. But what | | | | the friends you keep, the music you listen to, the |
| we are actually training is our subconscious. We are | | | | programs you watch on TV and if you are painfully |
| constantly training our subconscious to make most of | | | | honest with yourself you will realize the influences |
| our daily decisions for us. | | | | that your subconscious mind is modeled around. |
| Now the sad thing is that our inner voices are | | | | 5. How do I Take Control Of My Inner Voice And |
| subject to more outer influences than inner! What | | | | Remodel It Into What I Want? |
| that means is that a lot of conditioning of our inner | | | | Taking control of your inner voice is not brain surgery |
| voice is made by the world around us and not by | | | | and is not as difficult as it sounds. |
| you! And this is where these 5 questions take effect! | | | | It is actually more of conditioning than anything else! |
| Therefore being able to answer these 5 questions | | | | The thing you must realize is that humans are beasts |
| alone will allow you to take control of the most | | | | of habit and just about everything we do normally, |
| important part of your body, YOUR MIND. And only | | | | we do out of habit. And this is what makes |
| by doing so can you really learn to control your | | | | conditioning of your mindset very possible. |
| confidence, charm and personality; all of which are | | | | In a nutshell, there are 3 ways of accomplishing the |
| essential to long term great social interactions with | | | | desired confident and positive mindset and all 3 MUST |
| girls. | | | | go hand in hand: |
| So let us review these 5 important questions: | | | | - The 1st way is all about adopting the right kind of |
| 1. Can I Hear My Inner Voice? | | | | habits that create positivity and confidence in your |
| Believe it or not, it is very possible to hear your inner | | | | everyday life and sticking to those actions long |
| voice. And believe it or not, hearing your inner voice | | | | enough for your mind to think it normal and natural |
| is as easy as pausing a moment before making a | | | | to keep to these actions up; and the habit is born. |
| decision! | | | | And so, the confidence and positivity of those habits |
| Therefore analyzing your train of thought after | | | | will become a part of your everyday life. |
| pausing before making a decision is the best way to | | | | - The 2nd way is learning to personally feed your |
| hear your inner voice and it is the first step to | | | | mind positivity by becoming your own personal |
| learning to control it. | | | | cheerleader. Whenever you hear your inner voice |
| 2. When Should I listen To My Inner Voice? | | | | being negative, say no to that way of thinking and |
| The best time to listen to your inner voice is when | | | | feed positive and confident thoughts to yourself. |
| you are in a heightened emotional state. Now | | | | Purpose to act in a positive and confident manner in |
| although you can listen to your inner voice anytime, it | | | | all situations and keep telling yourself that this is who |
| is loudest under moments of distress or high activity! | | | | you are and before long this way of thinking will |
| And the truth is that you really do not have to take | | | | indeed become natural for you! |
| control of your subconscious in all cases; because | | | | - The 3rd way of gaining a confident and positive |
| your subconscious is more like a shortcut or a road | | | | inner voice is changing your flock. |
| map to quick and easy everyday living. | | | | Now chances are that your speech will betray the |
| Simply take a minute to imagine every decision you | | | | true nature of your mindset. If all you tend to talk |
| make from the moment you wake up... now imagine | | | | about are complaints and fears about everything |
| stopping yourself before you make those decisions | | | | then you have a fearful and doubtful mindset, and |
| and then proceeding to question your motives behind | | | | you probably are not the best company to be |
| the decisions you were going to make. Yes, it gives | | | | around. |
| me a headache as well just thinking about it but that | | | | The old saying that birds of a feather flock together |
| is how it would be like if you shut of the control that | | | | is all so true! Therefore change your current |
| your subconscious self has over your life. | | | | company and start hanging around with positive |
| Now getting back on topic, the reason you want to | | | | natured people! |
| training yourself to occasionally listen to your inner | | | | You do not believe me? Then simply go out there |
| voice, especially when in a heightened emotional | | | | and spend a day with that negative guy that we all |
| state, is because when you are emotionally charged | | | | know. I am sure you know who I mean; we all have |
| it usually your body and minds way of warning you | | | | an acquaintance who is always complaining about this |
| that this situation requires conscious decision making | | | | and that and is never satisfied or happy with any of |
| as the decisions you make are very important to | | | | lives events. And after spending a full day with that |
| you. | | | | person tell me just how positive you feel... |
| 3. Does My Voice Advice Me Towards Confidence | | | | So just by hanging around positive people you will |
| Negativity? | | | | gradually adopt their way of thinking; with time it will |
| Now the reason you are learning to listen to your | | | | feel unnatural to speak of negativity and fear and |
| inner voice is not so you can say that you hear | | | | natural to speak positively and confidently! |
| voices in your head! No, the reason for learning to | | | | |