Why Flying More is the Best Cure For a Travel Phobia

Many people ask me whether travel phobias - fear ofnot effectively cure the problem or they require the
flying, boating, automobile travel etc. - are justified orclient to subject themselves to an unnecessary
irrational.amount of sessions revisiting the past.
I would be hard pressed to think of a singleDepending upon the client and the particular phobia, I
travel-related phobia that is "justified" per se. If arecommend using either NLP, clinical hypnotherapy or
person has been in a serious car/plane accident and isThought Field Therapy (or a combination of these
therefore, afraid to return to that method of travel,techniques).
his/her fear could possibly be said to be "justified"Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) was developed
under the circumstances. However, most phobiasby Richard Bandler and John Grinder in the early 70's -
related to travel are based on worries that simply willbased on their observations of the work of Virginia
never eventuate.Satir, Fritz Perls and Milton Erickson. NLP was created
By its very definition, a phobia is not a rationalto help us understand how verbal and nonverbal
process. It is mainly an irrational fear of somethingcommunication affects the human brain. It gives all of
that poses no real, impending danger. Take forus the opportunity to learn how to gain more control
example one of the most common phobias - fear ofover the automatic functions of our own brain
flying. Fear of flying is a partly rational and partlyneurology. Essentially, if you know the structure of
irrational fear. Yes, planes do crash from time to timebehaviour (i.e. a phobia), you can change it....and you
and it is remotely possible that the one you arecan change it quickly. It is not necessary to analyse
thinking of travelling on, could crash. But the likelihoodthe reasons or causes for the behaviour.
of that happening is minuscule. You have a betterHypnotherapy minimises the symptoms of phobias by
chance of winning the lottery.reprogramming the existing thought patterns that are
No doubt you are aware that it is statistically morestored in the subconscious mind - which bring about
dangerous to walk the streets or travel by car. Wethe fears. The thought-feeling reactions created form
know all of these facts "intellectually" but this doesa chain of events, much like a string of pearls: A
not stop many from dreading or fearing travel by"string" is created from the initial sensitising event (or
plane. In fact, it is estimated that as many as 8 to 10"ISE") to each of the subsequent events that
out of every 100 individuals suffers from some sortreinforce those particular thoughts and feelings. The
of travel related phobia (with symptoms ranging fromability to trace back the presenting issue/problem to
mild to severe).the first time it was ever a problem for the client
Because phobias are not a rational process, facts,(ISE) and break the thought feeling connection, is the
safety precautions and statistics do little to calm thekey to eliminating the problem and the symptoms
fears of anyone who suffers. It is simply a learnedforever. The key is to identify the problem (not
emotional response in which your imagination causesmerely the symptoms) and to uncover the ISE.
a powerful surge of fear and anxiety. Once triggered,Energy Psychology (i.e. Thought Field Therapy) is one
the phobic response is fueled by runaway emotionsof the newer approaches that dramatically reduces
and powerful imagery created by the subconsciousemotional distress and restores emotional well-being
mind.by clearing the flow of the body's "energy system".
The critical point here is that although the event (i.e. aIt is effective in treating phobias because it is safe,
flight or the thought of taking a flight) triggers thiseffective and long lasting. Energy psychology is based
chain of events, it is purely our imagination that fuelson the centuries old philosophy that there are lines of
it, maintains it, and makes us dread the next time.energy, called meridians that run through the body.
And if we continue to avoid travelling in order toEvery negative emotion that we experience is simply
avoid the phobic reaction, our avoidance actuallya blockage of energy somewhere in the body. The
intensifies the phobia related to flying. In essence, allsymptoms of blocked energy can include emotions
phobias are the result of not knowing how tosuch as fear, anxiety, etc. and behaviours such as
manage our own imagination.phobias. Many of these symptoms will simply fade
And to successfully overcome phobias we needaway on their own if you clear the blocked energy.
methods to successfully manage our own thoughtsThis is done by tapping on a series of points on the
so that they do not produce the phobic feelings.body, usually while focusing on the specific problem,
Ironically, despite the prevalence of phobias relatedeither as an image, or by saying a word or sentence
to air travel, most suffers do still choose to travel byout loud. When your energy is balanced and runs
air and many use drugs or relaxation as their primaryclear, your emotional distress goes away on its own.
method to overcome the physical symptoms. NeitherThere is no need to explore it, analyse it, or subject
of these is a cure but rather a temporary fix.to lengthy therapy sessions.
Ironically, the best way to treat the aerophobia (fearIn my own practice, more often than not, I will use
of flying) is to fly more frequently. Every successfuleither TFT or NLP to assist clients with phobias. From
flight will build hard evidence to support the belieftime to time I use clinical hypnotherapy. The results
that air catastrophes are an exception rather thanfrom NLP and TFT are usually immediate (1-2
the rule. However, this may not be palatable forsessions depending on the presenting issue) and
many sufferers (esp. those whose symptoms arepermanent. Also, these do not subject the client
the most severe). There are a few common[unnecessarily] to revisit painful memories from the
approaches that I do not recommend. They either dopast.