Habits: Friends or Foes?

"As a child, 'helping' in the kitchen, it was by watchingoften told by their parents for example.
my mother that I learned how to beat eggs with aAnd adults too. How many times have you read a
fork. Along with the rapid forearm movement, Imagazine article advising you to "sit up strait"; while
copied what she did with her shoulders - and soonusing a computer, or "walk tall" or "hold your head
began to feel cramped and tired. How could I know,high"?
young as I was, than the tension I had copied wasWhat this kind of advice ignores is that it's asking
merely an expression of my mother's anxiety toyou to change what your body does without
hurry on to the next task, that it contributed nothingchanging the way your body functions.
to the speed or effectiveness of the egg-beating.It's a little like taking an automobile that's pulling to
Whipping the whites was done with a knife on athe right and driving it with the steering wheel always
large plate, but since this skill, even more fascinating,turned a little to the left to keep the car moving
was demonstrated by my grandmother, a dignifiedstrait ahead. You've certainly changed the way the
old lady who operated at how own speed, it nevercar moves, but it's still not functioning properly.
involved me in muscular problems, then or later. AsMost drivers understand that's only a temporary
an adult, I have been able to analyze the difference,solution and take steps to adjust the car's alignment
and have become passionately interested in- a fairly simple job for a trained mechanic.
disentangling skills from the snares surrounding them."But with human beings, the problem is a quite
- Elizabeth Langford, Mind and Muscle - An Owner'sdifferent - we have to be our own "mechanic". And
Manual, page 220.that poses special challenges: Our posture,
Like fire, habits are excellent servants but can becoordination and balance are directed by our
very dangerous masters. They're necessary for us tothoughts. If that directing is done sub-consciously - if
get through life without thinking about every littleit is habitual - then in order to make changes in it, we
detail of our lives, freeing our minds for morehave to learn how to make the directing process
important things; we want, for example, to carry onitself conscious.
a conversation while chopping vegetables for - orAnd that's not all. As any experimental scientist can
beating eggs - for dinner.tell you, it's a very tricky business to make
But it's precisely because much of what we do isfundamental changes to a system when you're using
relegated to the unconscious realm that our habits ofthat very system to make the change. As John
posture and movement can be quite inefficient andDewy, the great American philosopher and educator
even harmful. I'm sure you can think of people yousaid, "No one would deny that we ourselves enter as
know who have odd ways of holding themselves, ofan agency into whatever is attempted and done by
walking, speaking etc. - mannerisms that have nous. That is a truism. But the hardest thing to attend
obvious cause such as an injury or disease.to is that which is closest to us, that which is most
For the most part these people are blissfully unawareconstant and familiar. And this closest "something" is,
of these patterns, even ones that are quiteprecisely, ourselves, our own habits and ways of
pronounced and easy for all to see. And while thisdoing things..."
lack of awareness may seem like a blessing - relievingF. Matthews Alexander faced precisely this challenge
them of something to worry or feel embarrassedin confronting a serious problem with his voice. In the
about - it also ensures that the habits will persist. Andcourse of overcoming his difficulty, he developed a
the harmful tensions and pressure they'remethod - today known as the Alexander Technique -
unconsciously generating in their body can eventuallywhich can be systematically taught to others.
lead to pain and even serious injury in later life.If for any reason - pain, discomfort, the desire to be
What can one do about physical habits of this sort?able to do things better - the idea of making a
The usual solution involves exercises and otherfundamental improvement in the way your function
attempts to "fix" the problem by doing somethingappeals to you, the Alexander Technique is well
else. "Stand up straight", "Pull your shoulders back", -worth your investigation.
these are the kind of things slouching children are