| 1. Spend time with your kids. We spell
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| | people I know have had someone in their
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| love L-O-V-E. Children and teens spell it
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| | lives teach them how the world
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| T-I-M-E. The myth that the quality of
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| | works.Three of the most important things
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| time is more important than the quantity
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| | we need to know and are taught so little
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| of time spent with children is just that
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| | about are:how to have a successful love
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| - a myth.We would not buy this lie if a
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| | relationship;how to be an effective
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| surgeon told us, "I was not able to spend
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| | parent;and how to make and manage
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| as much time as I would have liked on
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| | money.If you don't know how to teach
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| your surgery, but the few moments I did
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| | these things, then learn how. Showing
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| spend was really quality time."We want
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| | your children how the world works
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| both quantity and quality. So do our
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| | demonstrates love because it imparts
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| kids. I've worked with many people who
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| | values to them. If you don't do it, there
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| have provided everything for their
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| | are plenty of people in the world who
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| children except themselves. How nice and
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| | will, but they may have an agenda that
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| big your house looks from the outside is
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| | does not include the best interests of
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| much less important to your kids than how
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| | your children.4. Love your spouse. The
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| it feels to be on the inside of your
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| | first place your kids learn how to love
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| home.One of the best ways to spend time
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| | another person is by watching you. Do
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| with your children is to let them lead.
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| | your kids see affection or disrespect?5.
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| Set aside the time, and then do what they
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| | Watch your words. The words we speak to
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| would like to do. Let them lead. You
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| | our children can be encouraging or
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| could find yourself doing things that
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| | discouraging, a blessing or a curse. I've
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| look funny, but so what?Set dates with
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| | worked with many clients whose entire
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| your children. Block out a chunk of time,
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| | self-image was centered on what their
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| and protect it just as you would an
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| | parents told them about themselves.I know
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| important business meeting.2. Discipline
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| | competent people who deep down believe
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| your children. Discipline is not just
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| | they are losers because they were told so
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| spanking or grounding, though there is a
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| | by their parents. A single word or phrase
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| place for both. Disciplining is loving
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| | can last a lifetime.If you have spoken
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| correction. If you are not able or are
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| | words that were less than a blessing to
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| not willing to discipline your children,
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| | your children, clean it up. Apologize.
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| you might consider whether you really do
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| | Have the conversation. Tell them you do
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| love them. Disciplining your kids is not
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| | not see them that way, and then show them
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| fun, but it is love.The child who grows
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| | that you don't.If you are having trouble
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| up in an anything-goes,
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| | finding words to bless your children,
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| my-kid-can-do-no-wrong kind of home grows
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| | start with: "I'm so glad you are my
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| up with weak choice muscles when it comes
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| | child, because ..." and then go from
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| to right and wrong. Teach your kids the
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| | there. It's also important to back up
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| difference between making good choices
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| | your words with actions.Visit for tips
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| and making bad choices. You make bad
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| | and tools for creating and growing a
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| choices, and bad things happen; make good
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| | great relationship. You can also
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| choices, and good things happen. Teach
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| this and model this, because it's the
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| | on how to enrich your relationship today,
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| real world.3. Show your kids how the
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| | from relationship coach and expert Jeff
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| world works. Most of the successful
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